rosslynpaladin:fullyfunctionalminiaturebeehive:robotsandfrippary:keiths-dolls:the whole “good vibes
rosslynpaladin:fullyfunctionalminiaturebeehive:robotsandfrippary:keiths-dolls:the whole “good vibes only, positivity yaaay” shit honestly makes me want to go full feral and rip your spleen out with my fucking teeth.I will bitch and moan when I want to and if you don’t like it you don’t have to listen. Not having a pressure valve for that shit is really bad for you. “Just need to hustle harder” will get you smacked so hard you will land in Cretaceous period right before the asteroid hit. “The bad only makes you stronger,” huh? So I’ll be doing you a favour by locking you in a dumpster with five angry raccoons? Sweet!Toxic Positivity is when you try to refuse or deny the existence of pain/hardship via Gaslighting and denial.Good positivity is maintaining a realistic view of how life is worth living, or finding ways to feel peace when you can’t feel hope.If you gush how the “Only Disability Is a Bad Attitude”!! within my hearing I will run you over with my wheelchair. No amount of grinning or Trying Harder has ever turned stairs into something I can climb, and no amount of Yoga or MLM products can cure the condition I have. Real positivity “I am Disabled AND my life is worth living. Disability is not a dirty word.”Acceptance > Toxic Positivity. -- source link