flyandfamousblackgirls: neverbeensimpleminded: alltheresonzwhyimme: jr40402011: thefrayedsoul: blaql
flyandfamousblackgirls: neverbeensimpleminded: alltheresonzwhyimme: jr40402011: thefrayedsoul: blaqlikelucifer: lov3ofdarkn3ss: jr40402011: blaqlikelucifer: lov3ofdarkn3ss: Good question…. Who wants to answer…. Share it if you must…. No you can’t.If you’re going to be pro-anything the ideology or the concept must first be born inside you and be your lifestyle, otherwise it’s just lip service. Like how you pro-black but you don’t want your children to be Black? Or rather you don’t want them to have a Black mother and Black father. ^^^^ real shit! I tell people all the time. You can’t be pro-black and date outside your race. Like, “i love bm/bw” but you dating a white men/women. Fuck-out-of-here. Black People like that are full of shit! Hate to break it to you but its possible. Atleast here in Western Society. Even Black people here on Tumblr. Im not naming no pages but some of the pages that promote Positive images of Black Women, which so happen to a Black woman as an admin, date White boys. Truth be told, there isn’t any instructions on how to be Pro-Black. So youll have outlets like Tumblr here and Twitter telling what Pro-Black entails. Now if you identify with Pan-Afrikanism then that’s completely different. Like I said those people are simply playing lip service. You can post pictures and write sonnets and soliloquies about the beauty of Black women, Black Love, Black Men, etc, etc, BUT, and the operative conjunction is BUT, your life does not match your words then it don’t mean shit.If you want to see an ideal realized, you must first embody it. There are plenty of instructions on how to be pro-Black, but you’re not gonna find them in 160 character tweets, or instagram pages. There are a plethora of Black scholars that Black tumblr, and Black Twitter and Black people consistently ignore. So that’s not an excuse, it’s a deficit caused by ignorance and triteness. love who you love. You can love black people and support the pro black movement and be black while also dating non black. My heart doesn’t see color and if i vibe with you then I vibe with you. With that being said, you would have to have certain ideals and values that are in line with mine but assuming they are then we good. All of y'all are full-of-shit! You Pro-Black and don’t see color. What! I don’t know how to feel about this post ….. I love this question a and quote , I feel the same you can’t be pro-black and be with a white person. Because if your really strong believer in your culture how do you expect a white to really and truly understand it and be comfortable with it Chime into the discussion, yall. It’s a good question. Being pro-black and then forcing yourself to be only with a black person even though you have met someone who isn’t and is perfect for you is the dumbest act of all… Being pro black means promoting and believing in your culture… Restricting yourself or rejecting other races doesn’t make you problack,, it means you are simply a slave to your ideologies to the point of hurting yourself… If all you believe in leads to you restricting yourself and your choices… then you aren’t pro black.. you are simply perpetuating a different type of oppression… self oppression… It’s like asking if feminists should never date a man… Must they all be lesbians too?? Are they not pro women?? should they force themselves to be lesbians??? -- source link