lillybgoddess:From Swinging, To Hotwifing Happy Hotwifing Tuesday everyone. It’s that time again for
lillybgoddess:From Swinging, To Hotwifing Happy Hotwifing Tuesday everyone. It’s that time again for another episode of Hotwifing 101. Today I’m going to talk about the typical gradual progression from one lifestyle to another.When my Stag and I first got into things…it wasnt Hotwifing that we jumped into. We started in the Swinging lifestyle. Actually we started with just searching for Unicorns to join us for fun 3somes. But that was difficult. If you are looking for Unicorns (single ladies wanting to play)…then you probably already know that it’s a tough task. For us, it wasnt worth our time to come across a lady or 2 a week and find out there are major issues with her. So…we decided to attempt swinging. Our experiences were amazing. I mean…absolutely amazing. We clicked very well with a number of couples and we had alot of fun in the bedroom. We had no trouble with full swap because we both got turned on watching each other. And as much fun as we had, …we didnt dream of going into anything else. So…how do most Hotwives end up in the lifestyle? Honestly, the vast majority start of swinging just like I did. My story of what led me more to Hotwifing is mainly about chemistry. You see, when swinging…all 4 individuals should connect. And that’s not an easy task either. Most of the time 3 of you connect or 2 of you…but rarely all 4. So the search for couples can be more difficult than Hotwifing. We still Swing from time to time but we dont push it and we dont search for it. If it finds us…then we jump on it. But we do not make it a point to search couples.While we were in between couples…Stag and I had a talk about just adding another man for 3somes. Stag was not a fan of it early on at all. I took my time with him and he eventually came back to me and agreed to try it. Since that first playdate, he would tell you that it totally changed his mind. He loved it. He says that watching me being fucked by another man is one of his biggest turn ins, especially if hes there. I’m not gonna lie, it turns me on every time…knowing that he is right there watching me pleasure another cock. I love driving him wild. This is the typical transition for what most Hotwives experience. Not all….but most! We tend to work in both lifestyles with a preference to solo men joining us. Dont get me wrong….I love my girl on girl time too. I am Bi and I truly do enjoy the simple soft pleasures of another woman. My preference though is cock if I have to choose.Being a Hotwife doesnt mean that you dont play the other lifestyles too. It means you’re free to do it all, but we associate more playing with multiple men. Dont make the lifestyle that you choose so stringent. Do what makes you both as a couple…happy! There are things in swinging that you cant possibly do in Hotwifing. I suggest starting there to alleviate fears and jealousy. But remember that the same problems occur swinging. Jealousy is the big killer. Trust is imperative. Dip your feet in the swinging water and if that works, then Hotwifing surely will. Have a great 4th of July week. Happy Hotwifing!This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ~LillybGoddessFollow my other blog @hotwifelifestyle101 for all archived questions and episodes. Also all things Hotwives! -- source link