howtodommehim:Start off with a significant event. Get him in bondage like you will play games with h
howtodommehim:Start off with a significant event. Get him in bondage like you will play games with him. Then once tied up tease him while you talk with him. Gag him so he can only reply with yes and no. At some point change the tone to very serious. Lay down the law. “From now on you will consider me your Mistress. We are doing playing games it is about to get real” Ask him if he that is what he wants because this is his only chance to refuse. If he says yes slap his face and ask “Are you sure?” Make it a hard slap, not a baby slap. It needs to sting, it needs to leave his face red. He will likely say yes again more purposely under his gag. The best respond be you will be “What? I didn’t hear that” He will respond with the loudest yes he can muster and if you are luck he might even say “yes Mistress” Now blindfold him, put some clothespins on his nipples and tell him you will give him some time to think about his commitment. And walk away for awhile slapping his hard cock as you leave. When you come back, 10-30 minutes later, be soft and gentle and slowly start stroking his cock. whisper in his ear “ last chance, are you sure?” and with his yes take off the nipple clamps and when he moans or says anything take your hand off his cock and tell him to shut up or they will go back on. Then leave him again. When you return it should be dressed as a Domme. Something that shows your position. He should hear the click of the heeled boots as you approach and will learn to both get excited and feel this sound. Carry a crop or small paddle. You don’t want to hurt your own hand when you slap him. Caress his body with the tip of the crop and maybe give a little slap of the nipple. You have set the tone, now time to make some rules. Take off his blindfold and have him look at you while speaking. He is to respond after each rule. 1. When in bondage or when I am dressed as a Domme you will refer to me as ‘Mistress’ every time you speak. He should respond yes Mistress. If not slap his nipple with the crop. If he does slap him with the crop and say tell him ‘good boy’ 2. You will never resisted or deny me when I tell you put on bondage devices 3. When I am dressed as a Domme my power is absolute and you will obey to the best of your ability no matter the request. Now the last part is very important. Have a cold pack to put on his erection to get him small enough so you can easily put in the chastity device. Make sure you are familiar with it. Be careful not to pinch him. He will get over it if you do. If he reacts poorly then punish him. Be familiar with how the device works. A good fit is a more secure device and more comfortable to wear. Take the key and put it some place while he is still tied. 4. The chastity device stays on always except when I allow it off. You may request it removed for special times like Doctor visits or going through a metal detector. When off you will not stimulate yourself and will replace it at the soonest possible moment. Congratulations you are now a Domme with her very own slave who will love and adore you more than ever for giving this gift to him. -- source link