Beg, baby, beg… littlepetimp:Begging. Ah, there’s something about begging which i
Beg, baby, beg… littlepetimp: Begging. Ah, there’s something about begging which is just so utterly appealing to me. It’s something I actually think about a lot. Not in terms of what I want to say, not even in terms of what I actually want to beg for. But just… begging. The state of mind which comes with that act. The constant flow of words, relentless and unstopping, rambling and incoherent, yet perfectly focused towards one primary desire - whatever that particular desire happens to be at the moment. It’s the sense of desperation behind the words that is so significant to me. The state of mind - which, at that point, is better described as a state of being. My mind is generally unstoppable. Thoughts upon thoughts, second-guesses, rationalizations, interpretations, doubts, wonderings, instantaneous judgments on what to say and what not to say… I’m also hindered by shyness - especially when it pertains to asking for something that I want. That’s made worse with Sir, when my primary desires tend to focus on pleasing him; to think about what I want often seems so very selfish - sometimes even when my desire is nothing more than to do what he wants! And so, very often, the things I think about, the things I want - they don’t make it past my head. They flit through my mind, mixed in with countless other thoughts, and never cross my lips. Are often never even acknowledged. But oh… to beg. To reach that state of desperation where I can no longer think clearly. When I can no longer rationalize, justify, or pick apart where I am or what I should be thinking, what I should be doing. To be reduced to a state beyond mere want - to exist in nothing more than an agony of need, such that what flies through my head escapes my lips in the next instant. To be released from my mind, to let go of all rational thought… to become utterly wanton, guileless, exposed and open, empty of all but my desires… I want that. Crave that. I almost want to beg…. to be able to beg. her-master: I received a question from a gentle reader: I’d love to beg more, but my love will not let me pray, he always accepts my advances on the spot. How can I do to get him to make me beg ? (I’m asking you because you posted interesting posts on this). Thanks! Ah, a subject that is near and dear to my heart: making a woman beg. In my mind, there are three ways to do this, but I’m assuming the last one is probably what you’re asking about: There is making a woman beg from pain. One of my personal favorites is making a woman beg you to beat her, then pushing her to beg you to stop. This is not terribly difficult, but you need a certain degree of expertise in how to build the pain gradually, pacing her, relaxing her. All in all, not too difficult if you understand how to push her without getting too close to her limits too quickly. There is making a woman beg from the sheer intensity of the experience. Pain can be part of this, but other psychological pressures and manipulations also play a part. Humiliation, objectification, perhaps pushing her to do something she would not normally do (e.g., public exposure, etc.) This type of begging occurs as a natural result of breaking a woman down, and it takes real skill to do this well… and real trust to put the pieces back together. The most difficult is making her beg from pleasure. Many women will very quickly go to the theatrical “Oh, please take me Master”, which I have no interest in at all. What does interest me however, is the begging that comes from desperation—trembling, shaking, crying in desperation as she begs you to take her and do wonderful things to her body, and yet you frustrate her and push her further. Many men (falsely) pride themselves on their “skills” in the bedroom, but this goes far beyond that—knowing when, where and how to touch her is only part of it. You must craft a whole experience that will leave her quivering and crying from her desire and the big empty place inside her—until you choose to fill it. (Perhaps my pet will want to talk about that from her perspective sometime if you ask her nicely.) So, I think the man must have the skill, the desire, and the resolve to make it happen. Those are the common threads tying all of these together. Gentle reader, if you want your man to do this and he is not, first make sure he understands you want it. You must have a very honest and open conversation about your wants and needs because this may feel a lot to him like he is hurting you… so he must understand you want this. Then he needs to educate himself. He probably has no idea what is possible if his experiences have been completely vanilla to this point. (Whether you call it D/s or some other label, there is a clear element of dominance in making a woman beg.) Most importantly, he needs to have the strength and self-control to make this happen. It’s one thing to have a beautiful woman beg you to fuck her. It’s another thing to not do it when she does. It’s another thing entirely to keep pushing her until she is crying from the want of you, and yet you still hold back. Not every man can do this, but the first step, I think, is making it clear you need this and want this from him. I’ll leave comments open. If readers have other ideas, please feel free to share them. ? -- source link