thefemdomdiary: missv2you: thefemdomdiary:That look. I love it when my sub flirts, when he initiates
thefemdomdiary: missv2you: thefemdomdiary:That look. I love it when my sub flirts, when he initiates. I always, always have the option to say no, or to change the pace or dynamic. But I want him to always feel free to want me, and to show it. The biggest turnoff I’ve had with just about every male sub I’ve had around me, is the fact that they never initiate. I will not have anyone around me who is like that in the future. Having to *always*, yes, ALWAYS, order someone to touch me does absolutely nothing for my self esteem. Exactly. EXACTLY. Ultimately, it crushes my desire because I resent having to make it an order. Ms Kay -- source link