abuseyourself:Shhh. you’re stupid when you talk.I think saying that has a pretty high chan
abuseyourself: Shhh. you’re stupid when you talk. I think saying that has a pretty high chance of being an instant turn off. The limit in humiliation seems to be being called stupid or ugly for a lot of people, so I don’t think I’d go there without discussing it first. For female submissives (yeah, it’s a crude generalization) the sweet spot seems to sexual humiliation and being made into what they can’t usually be socially: sluts, whores, bitches, overly sexualized fucktoys, mere objects used for pleasure or, even more humiliating, for nothing at all. So personally, I’ll usually stick to that. I think it makes perfect sense in a way. I said it before: in a scene, the submissive surrenders herself more or less completely to your judgment. And in that situation I’d rather not make her feel unloved, worthless, inadequate, or disconnected from me in any way. Making her feel like a completely filthy mess of hurting and drooling flesh is fine, though. -- source link