ariaonthefloor: spankopera:For those times when grabbing ponytails just isn’t enough…
ariaonthefloor: spankopera: For those times when grabbing ponytails just isn’t enough… And when they use the belts in other ways - wonder if they give a fuck about whether the other people in the hotel can hear the lashes, or if they tone it down just a little.. It can add a sexiness when you hear hallway footsteps stopping nearby, and staying a while to listen… Two things: a.) Breath play and choking is DEFINITELY a hot button for me. I love the feeling of helplessness that comes with it. There’s also something dangerously thrilling and arousing about trusting another person with the very air that you breathe. b.) That being said, I DO NOT THIS THIS IS SAFE. AT ALL. People die from BDSM-related asphyxia. Also, you should never do something that could potentially crush your wind pipe. I know how some of us subs love a good belting, but keep that thing away from your neck, pretty please. I’m actually not sure if I’d have the same risk assessment. You’d have to pull on the belt a lot to start choking her. I think you’d actually pull her up before she has trouble drawing in air. The only thing I’d worry about is placing too much pressure on the front of the neck. Try it. Place a belt around your neck like this and pull it backwards. I bet you feel like coughing from the pressure before anything else. and @spankopera: after a few moments you dont care anymore whether someone could hear the lashes or not. -- source link