neutronstarchild: neutronstarchild: There’s Only Ever Been Youis online! Summary: Nothing coul
neutronstarchild: neutronstarchild: There’s Only Ever Been Youis online! Summary: Nothing could possibly be worse for Inuyasha than standing there, on his wedding day, waiting for whoever it was that his parents had decided he would marry. Didn’t they know that he had been in love since he was small? Well… the dream of seeing her again has died, replaced with whoever this stranger is. That is, until his bride raises her veil… So. Being a woman in the US right now is depressing in a way I can’t quite verbalize. It’s like this out of control sense of dread and frustration that there is so little we can do that it paralyzes us. And that’s what I’m feeling right now. Anyway. It meant that I did two things. First was I upped the donations I make to Planned Parenthood (I’ve been monthly donating since 2016) and… I wrote this. Because I imagined I may not be the only person out there at the moment who needs fluff, so here you all are. A little bit of InuKag fluff to see if it can lighten your dark day too. Taglist below the cut ♀️ Keep reading I hate having to add to this but… this fic and I were targeted by a group attack in a Discord server I’m in while I was in a work meeting today. So… time to bare my heart, I guess.When my dad passed away, I asked people for fluff. It was the salve that helped me get through those dark days, knowing that I could escape into fluffy happily ever afters when the weight of the real world became too heavy. It’s what I turn to when I am feeling sad, and I did so here.It’s not okay to police people’s coping mechanisms, especially while demanding they answer to your attacks on them. It’s not okay to go after someone for exercising healthy boundaries over people who have shown that they have a habit of violating them.I shouldn’t have to open up about my own trauma right now, and then submit myself to the purity judges because I wrote a story that helped me. A story that I myself had needed.Attacking me personally just made my dark day darker; maybe that was the entire point.And you know what I am going to do about it?I’m going to donate to Planned Parenthood, because it makes me feel like I am doing some good when I feel helpless and out of control. I am going to up my donation to Emily’s List too, because lord knows we need people who have uteruses in legislature that dictates things related to uteruses.And I’m going to continue writing the stories that I need. If it’s not also what you need? It’s okay to walk away and establish boundaries around engaging with me. I highly recommend it. It really helps. -- source link