adamsmasher: blacktwittercomedy: Black Social Comedy That’s not *always* the case though!! For
adamsmasher: blacktwittercomedy: Black Social Comedy That’s not *always* the case though!! For parties with Facebook events for instance, I invite everyone I can think of but if Facebook doesn’t suggest them I don’t always think of it cuz brain no work no good. Like I’ve had times where someone’s said to me “oh if I’d known I would’ve come!” and I’m like “wait what?? I didn’t invite you? Oh no!!!”Or for some things where it’s a smaller get together where if it were up to me I would invite everyone I know and love but I only have room for X amount of people and therefore there kinda *has* to be a B list. But that doesn’t mean I don’t want the person there!!All this to say, social stuff is a little more nuanced than can be summarized in a couple tweets. Don’t assume people’s intentions are bad by default. When you assume the best intentions from your friends and wait for them to prove you wrong instead of the other way around, you can form deeper more meaningful friendships. -- source link
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