be-pleasing-always:Recently i saw someone ask about long-term relationships and D/s, and then i wa
be-pleasing-always: Recently i saw someone ask about long-term relationships and D/s, and then i was asked: can these things last? The simple response of course would be: why not? And would you ask someone in a non-D/s relationship the same question? Can a marriage last? i believe the confusion comes from a notion that D/s relationships revolve primarily around the physical. And perhaps it is difficult to imagine a sub kneeling at their Master’s feet at 75. But kneeling is not a physical act, or rather, there are many ways to submit without getting down on your knees. And so it is with domination too. It’s not just about the physical. Some of the aspects in a D/s connection will change with age. It takes work and adjustment, but so does every other partnership! And when, like me, you’ve seen a 67-year-old woman wear her collar with pride, a collar she received some 35 years earlier, there can be little doubt that, yes, these things can last. Perhaps people could see a healthy D/s relationship as any other relationship, but with a twist. Perhaps then people wouldn’t ask if it can last :D i for one, hope to prove it can. Wow. -- source link