micdotcom:Consent, it really is simple as tea. (x)I can’t believe we have to make fucking ANALOGIES
micdotcom:Consent, it really is simple as tea. (x)I can’t believe we have to make fucking ANALOGIES so that people get a concept that is as simple as consent. THE GOLDEN RULE: KEEP ASKING.Don’t have sex with someone unless you ask and both of you verbally agree to have sex. Don’t coerce someone against their wishes or try to persuade them by touching them.Don’t manipulate someone into having sex with you.Don’t force someone to have sex with you.Don’t get someone inebriated to coerce them to have sex with you.Don’t have sex with anyone unconscious. EVER. Even if they agreed before they passed out. DON’T. Consent stops when unconsciousness begins. Always double check to make sure they still want to have sex.Stop if your partner decides they don’t want to have sex any more. If they seem uncomfortable in any way then ask them if they still want to have sex and don’t proceed until they are positive that they are ok with continuing. Do not coerce them. Let THEM decide. Always assume someone wants protected sex even if they don’t say it.Always ask if they want un/protected sex.DO NOT FORCE SEX ON SOMEONE IF THEY HAVE NOT AGREED TO UNPROTECTED SEX JUST BECAUSE YOU “CAN’T WAIT”. You can. Stop being a baby about it.If you both agree on protected sex and you don’t have the proper preparations for pills/condoms/etc prepared, YOU AREN’T HAVING SEX. Just get that through your head, go to the damned store and buy the right shit ok. THEN have fun.Come prepared or don’t come at all. There IS no in between when protected sex has been agreed on.NEVER. EVER. EVER TRICK a woman into having unprotected sex. If they agreed to protected sex, you give them PROTECTED SEX.If you trick her at all this is RAPE.And just while I’m at it- Don’t promise it’ll feel better later or eventually. If your partner/s don’t feel good YOU are doing something wrong. It takes two and if your partner isn’t enjoying it then put more effort in to make sure they do because when they agreed to have sex with you, they consented to something that is supposed to feel good for both parties. MAKE SURE YOU BOTH LIKE WHAT IS HAPPENING. -- source link
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