mastersslutslave: Dance of avoidance During the course of a conversation not once, not twice but mul
mastersslutslave: Dance of avoidance During the course of a conversation not once, not twice but multiple times I tried to duck n weave to tip toe around, to do a dance of avoidance. I tried to not say the first thought but to search for something that I thought would please @prostatorgasm more. Ummmm that wasn’t my smartest move! He knows me so well he saw it on my face long before I tried to open my mouth and come up with something “more appropriate.” I am guilty of doing the dance in many ways, for example…. Him: How are you? Me: I’m ok….. This is normally a big fat avoidance. Him: What are you thinking? Me: Nothing…. I am always thinking, it’s who I am. So why do I do it time and time again? Why do I persist with the dance? Simple I have spent a lifetime searching for this man, and I don’t ever want to do anything that might upset him, I don’t ever want to compromise our relationship. Unfortunately though the dance has some very negative outcomes, I don’t get heard because I am afraid, he doesn’t know my thoughts because I am afraid and moreover I do the very thing I am trying to avoid, I upset him because he knows me better than any other person and sees it when we are in person, and knows it even when we text one another. So somehow I have to stop the dance of avoidance. -- source link