dominantlife:Forced Orgasms, With Love! Used with permission from Fetlife user Talenteddom My prof
dominantlife: Forced Orgasms, With Love! Used with permission from Fetlife user Talenteddom My profile does not convey how much I love the feeling of absolute power that I enjoy when I bring my woman to the height of ecstasy. Just as sexual conditioning results in association between arousal and countless fetishes for all of us, I have grown to feel wanted, accepted, and loved when my woman shudders out of control from my touch. All of my kinky play and toys are just a part of the process that results in her orgasms. I actually prefer sex after her orgasms have started. There is a clever fetish here that refers to “intercourse as aftercare ”. Brilliant! That is perfect! That way penetration is deferred until she is deeply into a series of multiple orgasms. Instead of just savoring a sweet ride down from a roller coaster ride of mind altering bliss, sex finally pushes her back up into the orgasm cycle. She has no time to wonder if the internal stimulation will bring her to orgasm. The sudden presence of a hardness forcing her open, the feeling she has craved so desperately as she was forced to orgasm so many times, quickly brings more orgasms. Many times my techniques have resulted in a series of multiple orgasms that begin at the moment of initial penetration and escalate as the depth, speed, and impact force increase. I hope that my work helps you have more fun. Introduction- Women are different! I have studied the female orgasm closely. The most common error men make is to treat the clit like a penis. A direct forceful assault with over stimulation can quickly bring a man to orgasm. When a woman is touched that way it is unpleasant if she is not ready for it. As always, women are all unique. Sometimes her sex drive will make her crave and respond to immediate and intense touch. She will let you know. Here is a general guide. No process is guaranteed to always work with all women. You must learn to read each one by closely sensing her reactions, timing, breathing, and muscle tension. 1) Love her, gently. Be in a close, warm friendship or an intimate relationship that does not begin with forced orgasms. Take gradual steps toward more aggressive stimulation as she becomes comfortable with you. Don’t attack her on the first date with the Hitachi on high! Use your touch and kissing and licking to make her have many gently created orgasms with you. 2) Don’t stop. Keep licking, stroking, or thrusting throughout the entire orgasm and as much as she can tolerate afterward. Training her to endure sustained stimulation leads many women to discover surfing a plateau of pleasure and opens the door to a series of multiple orgasms. This must not be forced until after many good safe experiences are completed. There is no need to torture an over sensitive clit at this stage. Be merciful now to avoid giving her a negative experience. That will spoil her fun and prevent the desired conditioning. 3) Love consistently. Shower your woman with kindness, pleasure, and intimacy. The basic human needs are the same for everyone, so be a gentleman. Even if a submissive likes abuse and pain, she needs to be reminded often that you cherish and adore her. Show your delight at every orgasm she shares with you. If she knows her orgasm is the greatest joy she can give to her partner, she will feel safe and encouraged to fully enjoy herself. 4) Take it slow. Most women need time to get comfortable with a new partner and progress to multiple orgasms. Over time, introduce brief moments of forced stimulation before and during orgasm. Then ease off when she pulls away. Gradually add more force when she is past the point of no return. Hold her still with brute force. Track the bucking of her hips so that if you are licking her the tongue never stops the strokes on her clit. Gradually take away her freedom to modulate or stop the stimulation. Take control, by brute force if necessary. Don’t be cruel, just be firm and increase the intensity only as far as she can endure. 5) Add layers. Use bondage, clamps, gag, blindfold, lingerie, shoes, toys, and anything she asks for all at once. A woman’s body is one big erogenous zone. More stimulation is better. If she looks and feels beautiful stretched out on the bed like a work of art, it is easier to control her arousal and force her to give up and shed her inhibitions. I like tight bondage to stimulate her and keep her from running away in horror at how I have turned her precious innocent vagina into a greedy screaming raging volcano of brutal orgasms that she is no longer able to control or prevent. Good Girl, stay right there while I pour myself a Bourbon. 6) Be attentive. Track her feedback carefully. Keep doing things that arouse her and immediately stop anything that reduces her arousal. At the first sign of distress, stop to correct what is causing her pain or fear. Those are advanced games to try in the future, not at first. You may have evil plans, but I suggest you keep your dick in your pants. Show her that you have self discipline. She is offering you the greatest gift a woman can ever give. Have the decency to make her the center of attention. Your sexual pleasure can wait for the right time. 7) Use human touch. Unless a woman is very experienced, a Hitachi on the clit is a harsh way to be stimulated. Build her conditioning to your touch by licking her while your fingers explore inside her. Press deeply to caress around the cervix. Make fingertip circles deep inside, then slowly withdraw your rotating fingers to pause and make circles around the G spot while pressing upwards gently behind the pubic bone while your tongue persistently applies quicker strokes to her clit. Stand by for a violent orgasm. After you have established this pattern, introduce the toys she likes and practice often to reinforce the conditioning to what she likes and whatever you wish to train her to associate with her orgasms. This work of art is a blank canvas. You can link her orgasms to many things. A group is devoted to orgasm conditioning of females, look that up for ideas that range from nice, to brilliant, to evil, and to simply sadistic. 8) Reinforcement. Once a pattern of helpless overstimulated forced orgasms is established, it will be easier to use toys and the Hitachi. She will become more comfortable with forced stimulation and will have the most violent orgasms of her life. You are in complete control. You can give her extreme pleasure and make her respond to your command to orgasm when you demand it. You can patiently adjust the stimulation through each orgasm to just below the point where extreme pleasure quickly transforms into unbearable torment. Don’t be brutal with her unless she is ready to sample the experience. If she likes overstimulation, then pat yourself on the back. You have created a Hitachi slut. If it is too much, don’t abuse your priceless treasure. 9) Make adjustments. Everything I have written is a guide, not a rule. A woman can have different needs, desires, and sensitivity from day to day. Be flexible. If she is not craving extreme suspension stuffed airtight with three dildo vibrators, Vise Grip ™ nipple clamps, and cane strokes to the soles of her feet while a Hitachi is tied firmly to her clit, then maybe she just needs cuddling and man handling and good sex once in a while. Be considerate, loving, and romantic at the right time to assure her that she is always safe when she gives herself to you. 10) Make exceptions. Don’t adhere to arbitrary rules without good reason. Some Doms follow ridiculous rules just because they are control freaks. For example, if a scene is planned for inverted suspension, and the woman is feeling a headache, don’t insist on that position. It will make her headache worse. Use common sense to protect your woman from suffering and danger. Adjust to unexpected changes in the situation. By the same logic, be prepared for the day you play with a highly trained submissive. She may require a quick progression to very intense bondage, with pain, and the Hitachi, while performing oral sex to feel the rush of vulnerability that brings her to orgasm. A slow gentle approach will be frustrating, just a teasing experience. Determine what kind of experience is needed before you start, and make adjustments as you communicate with her during the session. There are my secrets. Take a woman from vanilla to BDSM orgy actress in 10 easy steps. Each woman has a comfort level somewhere between those two extremes. You job is to care for her as you guide her in the exploration that will find what she seeks. You have great power, and great responsibility, to protect her at all times. Be careful in what kind of conditioning you bury into her mind. Never take selfish pleasures that are abusive or that do not also pleasure her. And with all things kink, make sure you have total consent. — more articles in the Library For Kinksters. -- source link