vintagesubwife:swaybound:vintagesubwife:sugarbooty:daughterofscotland: See the source for th
vintagesubwife: swaybound: vintagesubwife: sugarbooty: daughterofscotland: See the source for the whole comic, it’s brilliant. I’m sorry, there’s a WORD FOR THIS?!?!?! , mental load, holy shit While I am definitely the organizer, and do most of the house work, I am thankful that Sir does do a good amount of cooking, takes care of the yard work and picks up the grocery order every week. This is also why I am cutting back to 4 days a week next year so I can better juggle things. ❤️ This little comic is so far removed from our relationship that I’m sitting here thinking: wait, what? Maybe we need kids. We CLEARLY don’t have enough problems in our life. @swaybound lol it’s a thing. Sir and I have had to do some talking to see what areas He can help me bc at one point, I felt like I was doing everything, but with His ADHD, it makes it hard to have Him do big tasks. If I leave a cleaning list that would take me 30 min, it will take Him 3 hours. Though, last night He did a load or 2 of laundry on His own . So to help His brain, I used to just try and do everything. However, through teamwork, we have come up with a really good system for us. And we don’t have kids ;) @vintagesubwife I couldn’t even say who’s the one organizing in our relationship. I’m better at anticipating problems and planning around them, she’s better at getting moving and handling things in a practical way. And both our talents definitely lie far outside of the domestic sphere ;)We basically wing it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ -- source link