littlepetimp: The alternative to grabbing her hair and pulling her head back. In some ways this is j
littlepetimp: The alternative to grabbing her hair and pulling her head back. In some ways this is just as powerful, but it carries an entirely different sentiment to it. One is creating exposure, enforcing the idea of helplessness. It’s raw and unfiltered. This, on the other hand, is enforcing another aspect of submission. It makes her faceless, depersonalized - it’s easy to ignore her identify when you can’t see her face. You cannot see the eyes, or the facial expressions, to judge her reaction. Her sounds will be muffled. She can be objectified. This would actually evoke contradictory emotions in me. One is a sense of what I described above - a loss of identity in a way. There is fear, and loneliness, related to that. But there’s something else. My face is buried. I am free to react however is natural without it being exposed - simply because my reaction doesn’t matter in that moment. There is a sense of safety, and freedom, in that. -- source link