a-lolitas-life: A few Questions for all the Littles (and Daddies for #4) out there who fol
a-lolitas-life: A few Questions for all the Littles (and Daddies for #4) out there who follow me! The more I really talk about what it means to me and what I’m looking for… the more I learn just how darn SERIOUS and Precious being “Little” is to me. I’d love to share and also hear back form some of you on these questions so please hit up my Ask box if you have time!! 1. How Strongly are you connected to your Little Side? For example, when you really sit down and have a serious talk about that side of you, do you find you often tear up or even cry? 2. Do you feel like (at times) That you almost have two personalities (your Big and your Little)? Do the mesh at good/bad times? (I can feel some stories coming out of this question LOL) 3. Do you find that when you meet/ talk to someone who might be a possible Daddy that you’re OVERLY protective of that side of you? How do you go about letting go and trusting someone new to see that vulnerable side of you? 4.Daddies can answer this one! I’d love to know what a typical day is like with your Daddy (Little)! (For those of you who are lucky enough have one!) I will, of course, go first! 1. I have been opening up more and more to other people (here and not) and sharing what makes me who I am and about my little side and how I got here and MOST EVERY time I end up really tearing up or crying when I’m speaking about it in person, be it happy or sad tears. For me it makes me nervous because it only reminds me how precious this is to me, but at the same time, how special it is in the best ways!! I really think it is largly based on just how vulnerable I can feel in my Little space. AM I THE ONLY ONE?! 2. I REALLY do feel like I have three different personalities in some ways. I can easily keep my Big side completely and totally separate from my little sides. (After all I have my Adult life and I can’t be little all the time, nor would I want to be… that’s just me) But I do see my little and lolita sides peek out from time to time even when I’m not expecting it. All three headspaces feel different to me. Different interests, different sexual desires, even different favorite colors/snacks! 3. When I was still searching for a Daddy, I did feel VERY protective of my Little sides. Even with Daddy Vinnie when we were talking online before we met. As much as I didn’t mean for it to be, I felt like it might have limited my chances in connect BUT at the same time, I knew how important the relationship was to me and I know now that I was just so terrified of being hurt, disappointed, or tricked and used. Of course when I finally met Daddy Vinnie, all that just melted away in an instant and there I was puddling at his feet and already his Lolita before I even knew what happened. 4. Here’s an ideal day with Daddy Vinnie (and one we’ve played out many times): I love to take a rainy day and whine enough for him to call off work to spend the day in with me instead! First by staying in bed, HIS Bed because I snuck out of mine and into his room the night before because of a “scary dream” or at least that’s what I’d say was the reason! lol. Kissing Cuddling… playing… and Daddy showing me some new things to make me and him feel good! Then maybe, a movie and eat breakfast we made together. Crack a nearby window and listen to the rain, play some games. Eat some Candy because I’m good… maybe I’ll lick on a special Lolli just for me! (hehe). Picnic lunch in the middle of the living room as if it were a sunny day! Go play in the rain or go for a walk with the umbrella and be reminded its raining, lol. Take a nap together. Learn how to do something new, like build something in Daddy’s shop! Make dinner together, all I’d wear is an apron of course. Take a bath together… a long long bath. Read stories. Get tucked in… un-tucked and re-tucked in before passing out in my own bed… at least until Daddy comes in to check on me or I have another “scary dream”…. Ahh… bliss. I know it’s a lot, but I’m SO excited to hear from you all!! If you have time, please answer 1-4 (or whatever applies) and send it to my inbox!! XOXO, Lolita Interesting. I’d be interested in heading others POV on these questions. -- source link