blackgirlsreverything:arandomthot:They do say love is blindY’all so childish Funny! You’ll hear thi
blackgirlsreverything:arandomthot:They do say love is blindY’all so childish Funny! You’ll hear this a lot from men. There used to be / maybe still is a whole genre of “hot chick with loser boyfriends” blogs. It’s always shit like “he must have a really big dick” or maybe “he must be rich as hell.” Because, I guess, all attractive women (attractive straight women anyway) are driven by evolutionary psychology or sociobiology or whatever to ruthlessly “trade up.” But I think the trick is that, I dunno, maybe if you’re not into men you’re going to be baffled (and, in the case of incels, outraged) by what people who actually are into men see in men.I used to work with a very young woman who was over the moon about the 1970s actor Herschel Bernardi. Who, it turns out, had quite a cult following of women who agreed whole heartedly that he was sex on a stick.Did I understand this? Not at all! Am I into men? Not at all!When I was a young man a lot of my friends were over the moon for Ziggy Stardust-era David Bowie. Who, it turns out, had quite a cult following of women who agreed whole heartedly that he was sex on a stick.Did I understand this? Not at all! Am I into men? Not at all!When I was a (very!) young man a lot of my friends were over the moon for a teen idol, Bobby Sherman. Who, it turns out, had quite a cult following of women who agreed whole heartedly that he was sex on a stick.Did I understand this? Not at all! Am I into men? Not at all!When I was an older man a lot of my children’s friends were over the moon for Hagrid actor Robbie Coltraine. Who, it turns out, had quite a cult following of women who agreed whole heartedly that he was sex on a stick.Did I understand this? Not at all! Am I into men? Not at all!So what do all these very different and “ugly”-to-me men have in common? I’ll tell you! Those men all have one solitary older bumpkin of a blogger who’s not into men who’s not into them. And anywhere between thousands and millions of straight women who think they’re sex on a stick.And therefore what, exactly, does any straight (or “straight-straight”) woman need to do about my opinion about their “taste” in men? Or anyone else’s opinion? Oh right, not a goddamn thing! -- source link
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