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alwaysbewoke:alwaysbewoke:codeblackphoenix:ori-ebon: bdub86: ori-ebon: bdub86: ori-ebon: bdub86: alwaysbewoke: hi-imkingdavid: alwaysbewoke: futureblackpolitician: blogger-tears: thewolfsflower: blackgirlshit: alexbelvocal: pinkymaximus: jehovahhthickness: flyingpigstitty: alwaysbewoke: africa-will-unite: alwaysbewoke: fiftyshadesofmacygray: locdandloaded: afrorevolution: Sounds like a rich racist with a black woman fetish. She needs to divorce him This is what happens when you put your white partner on a pedestal. Talmbout “unlike the black men I dated” now he callin’ ya ass a nigger. not going to lie, i’m glad she’s going through this. for that shade she threw at black men, fuck her. stay with your white racist husband and suffer. no fucking sympathy here because WE WOULDN’T HAVE ANY SYMPATHY IF THIS WAS A BLACK MAN TALKING ABOUT HIS WHITE WIFE CALLING HIM NIGGER. NONE! In my village they would say “She was running away from the rain while swimming naked in the ocean” my mother would say “kouri lapli, tonbe nan la river” which means she was “running from the rain and fell into a river” haha. ^^^^^^ But black men are just faithful, innocent little angels who don’t perpetuate colorism or misogyny huh? Yeah ok This is a typical case of an abusive relationship, it starts with courting, romance, they make you feel safe, they make you depend on them and then once you’re in too deep that’s when they show their true intentions. I find it a little shocking that after hearing briefly of her experience with black men you turned on her immediately, blamed her for her circumstance and said she deserved her treatment. Ooooo yes yes Black men are sooo much better. What was she thinking Out of the frying pan and into the fire. I feel sorry for her honestly. She never said that black men aren’t shit, or that they’re trash. She said he treated her better then men of her own race had. Maybe to explain why she was dating outside of her race to begin with. Yes it was shady, but the point is she thought she was in a healthy relationship with a man who loves her, whom she is now dependent on. Only to find out he was a closeted racist. Like half of ya’ll seem more mad at her for being with a white man, then that whit mans treatment of her. but these the same black men that be getting praised for getting “foreign baddies” and their “white chocolate queens” so what is the fucking truth ??? The only difference is that she started getting called the n-word and speaking out about in the way that she should because it’s a bad thing but when these black men get they non-black women they be saying “yes babe I’m your little field nigger and it’s ok if you call me that in public and on social media ” yup you’re right. a black woman would nev… (source) i could have posted more examples but shit is ugly. look how about we do these 4 simple things: stop talking like black men are the only ones cooning in the black community. black women be on the shit too. stop pretending that black women have reached this elevated state above black men wherein they beyond coonery and all other human flaws. stop changing the rules on how to react to coonery based on gender. if you would slam a black man for coonery, be consistent and slam a black woman when she is riding the coon train too. that’s what equality is. equality isn’t just the good stuff, it’s the bad stuff. stop acting like calling out black female coonery the same way we call out black male coonery is evidence of hatred of black women. just stop. it’s so lame. so tired. one doesn’t need to hate black women as a whole to call out when black women are cooning. if so that must also mean that everytime a black woman calls out a cooning black man she hates all black men. you can’t have it both ways. if you can’t do any of the above, at least have the guts to admit you have an agenda that is NOT about equality but about superiority and favoritism. stop hiding because “feminism” and claims of misogyny or misogynoir. just stop. you don’t want true equal treatment you want exceptions. i legit wish i knew why we are so weak when it comes to this. it’s so fucking simple. keep EVERYONE accountable. shit ain’t hard! all in all this some real shit bruh that’s not even all of it. on a 30min ride into work, i thought of this experiment. i took that shot she took at black men (in defense of a racist white husband mind you), switch the genders, put them in the mouth of a black man and posted it on tumblr.. guess what happened? i don’t see anyone defending this dude, no one making excuses, no one twisting it and making it a black woman’s fault that he “felt more comfortable in the arms of a white woman”…. none of that shit. just hammering. now can you image now could you imagine if this was a black man asking for help while saying those words against black women in defense and praise of his white racist wife who calls him slurs in bed? the comment section would be sooooo ugly. but yet black men are supposed to just take. okay smfh. when i call black tumblr full of hypocrisy and cowardice when it comes to the subject of cooning black women, i know of what i speak. now watch when i ask. now watch when i ask all those who went in on this dude (which doesn’t exist btw; it’s a completely fake twitter account and that photo is a stock photo off a google search) what they have to say when i tell them that it was actually a black woman who said this about black men defending her racist white husband. shit is going to be crazy hahaha. I’m sorry but the number of black men out here falling all over themselves to fulfill some white woman’s racialized fantasy… I’m not gonna write a disertation instead I will direct you to Google and just search for a few dozen black male athletes, musical artists, actors, etc… who is on their arm. If you look into just a few you start to see a bingo board of similarities. e.g. ASAP Rocky, Michael B Jordan, Travis Scott, Lonzo Ball, Tiger Woods, Winston Duke, etc I personally have talked countless times about the black queer men who do the same shit as black straight men. e.g. Frank Ocean, those two football players with their white twinks, Tyler the Creator, etc That doesn’t even address the black gay men who do race play born that is JUST like the scenario this whole thing starts out as but those studios know they can’t get away with calling the the black performers niggers… not that the black performers would themselves object but they need plausible deniablity about how fucking dehumanizing the shit is. But the point wasn’t to contest that. The point was stop pretending it’s just Black men who do this, there are plenty of Black women on that coon shit too, and if we’re gonna clown one side for it we gotta clown all sides equally, or else it’s glaring hypocrisy, and people don’t want to acknowledge that. Y’all HATE black women that much… so much! Black women be out here fighting for our black asses even when we treat them like shit and they are facing the same racism we are plus misogyny at the same time and we don’t reach back to lend a hand yet alone acknowledge they struggles. So a few of them act like black men do in DROVES and y’all want to call that shit out but exhibits A thru X and Aa thru Kx throwing other niggas under the bus, engaging in colorism, misogynoir, queerphobia, toxic masculinity, etc… Sandra Bland was homophobic, I don’t need to ignore that but I know damn well for every ONE of her there are 50 black men like her that y’all will not call out and hold accountable. Alright so first off, who is “y’all” and who is “we”? Because I can tell you right now that you don’t speak for me. None of that rant applies to me, and your counterpoint ONLY holds water if it does. I’ll acknowledge and denounce the misogynoir/ colorism/violence/general bullshit Black women go through (often at the hands of Black men) and reciprocate their steadfast support in a heartbeat. But that doesn’t mean Imma hand out passes when they turn out to be the ones perpetrating. I’m not finna lie down and roll over and not have any standards whatsoever for Black women and pretend like they can do no wrong just because “I’m a man and I ain’t shit anyway”, fuck I look like with a simp-ass bullshit attitude like that? Don’t let Tumblr brainwash you. Because in the real world, most Black men who are married are married to Black women. There are plenty of Black men riding for Black women. Black love is real, and it is everywhere, but it doesn’t get broadcast where everyone can see it, because it’s just everyday life. Conversely, there are plenty of Black women who are toxic and abusive and the only reason their relationships with Black men aren’t working out. Every Black man ain’t no mongrel-ass dog and every Black woman ain’t a goddess queen, both sides got our gems, our trash, and our everyday imperfect folks just out here tryna live. Both sides got our good and both sides got our areas where we need work. It is not wrong to acknowledge that. And contrary to what this community would have you believe, the ratio damn sure ain’t 50-1 like you claim. How is holding Black women to the same standard of conduct as Black men anything but right? I don’t even know how you got “I hate Black women” from “hold everybody accountable regardless of gender”, that’s literally all I or @alwaysbewoke said. That’s it! Y’all do you. I am a black gay gay man and have experienced queerphobia at the hands of black women and toxic masculinity expectations placed on me by black women. I see Candace Owens, Stacey Dash, Omorosa, etc out here fuckin over black ppl for a check. I live with and around black ppl in addition to taking in media and it still leaves me feeling like Black men are not out here caping for the black community like black women are… end of story. Black men pop in when the issues benefit and affect us but otherwise crickets, where’s the white approval/money/pussy/bussy/ dick at. I will call out black women when they do wrong, because they definitely fuck up. Lord knows I fuck up. I am calling out black men right now because even if I’m wrong and you’re right and most of us are not guilty of the shit… a lot of us aren’t holding the guilty ones accountable. I call shit out so we can be aware and do better. Okay that’s all well and good and all, except….where is the suitable entrypoint in THIS thread/discussion for that interjection? Where in THIS situation was there a Black man to call out and hold accountable? There explicitly isn’t one, outside of a completely fabricated persona made to illustrate a point. There was only a singular Black woman here cooning. And if you truly call shit out regardless of who is it doing wrong, then the only appropriate response here was, “Yeah she got issues. She need to do better”, and leave it at that. The same as if it was a Black man in her place. And instead, you saw this situation where it was a Black woman fucking up, and rather than criticize this singular Black woman fucking up, your insistent response was to put Black men as an entire swath on trial. Which, sure, we can do that at the appropriate time, but that wasn’t the discussion being had. You tryna discuss the Pantheon and the Colosseum while we in Paris to see the Eiffel Tower. Make it make sense. All of what @ori-ebon said Make it make sense. when you can’t argue the facts, ppl like @bdub86 insert whataboutism and red herrings. like i always say, only DUMB people do that and only DUMBER people fall for it. THIS MOTHERFUCKER @bdub86 REBLOGGED TALKING ABOUT MEGAN THEE STALLION, TORY LANEZ, AND TRUMP LMAOOOO. NONE OF THAT IS THE ISSUE OF THIS BLOG POST. IT’S TOO STUPID TO EVEN REBLOG AND BOTHER YOU GUYS BUT THIS GUY IS SOOOOOO DESPERATE TO TURN THIS INTO AN ATTACK ON BLACK MEN WENT ALL THE WAY TO MEGAN THEE STALLION, TORY LANEZ, AND TRUMP! when y’all are desperate y’all will reach for ANYTHING. whewlawd. and why is it always motherfuckers who look like A DICKSTAIN ON 10 DAY DEAD CAMEL? and it’s always a fucking porn blog too. -- source link