sterndaddy: I’ve always said that most women care more about the quantity of your “gestu
sterndaddy: I’ve always said that most women care more about the quantity of your “gestures” than the quality. Don’t save them all up for one grand gesture once a year. If you live together, call her up and ask her out on a date. For absolutely no reason, bring her flowers. And nothing elaborate. Just get one of those cheesy flowers with the plastic “vase” on the end with water and wrapped in plastic. Take the plastic and “vase” off, shake it out a little and voila! Email her every couple of days to say you were just thinking about her and wanted to let her know that. Or call her and say that you wanted to hear her voice. Relationships aren’t hard. But they DO take work. You take your car in every 3-5,000 miles to get the oil changed. Think of this as relationship preventative maintenance. -- source link