daddysstrongarms:The Truth About Being A Dom (that you’re not likely to hear from other Doms
daddysstrongarms: The Truth About Being A Dom (that you’re not likely to hear from other Doms) I got into BDSM when I dated a young lady in 2007. She was into it and I had never so much as considered it. I was dominant by nature, but I never considered using that in my sex life. At the time I thought that the vanilla sex I was having was amaaaazing. Boy oh boy, I had no clue. She explained to me what a Master was/did and asked me to have a Skype session (we were in different towns at the time) with her to try it out. I skyped her and something came over me. I felt it immediately. “Get those clothes off NOW!” I said. She obeyed. “Get off of that chair and on your knees. You don’t deserve a chair.” She obeyed. I proceeded to make her cum 10 times in a row, while on her knees (which is not the most comfortable of positions.) I took to it. It was a huge part of who I was. All of a sudden, this thing I had never so much as considered before became something I could not live without. To deny that part of me was to oppress me. You see, a lot of the peanut gallery looks in and sees a glamorous life. Using women as foot stools and having your every need met… they do not see the immense weight on our shoulders. As Masters/Doms/Daddy Doms, we must: Fulfill all of her sexual needs Push limits without traumatizing Make sure that any abuse that she suffered in her life is IN NO WAY connected (mentally) to our sessions, and if she cannot separate it, ending the relationship immediately. Guide her to make her future successful and bright. Love/Need her with a passion she has ever experienced before. Nurture her and give her the affection she craves. Discipline her when you see her taking on a bad attitude, disobeying, or making poor decisions. Make her feelings/thoughts feel genuinely heard, without disrupting her submission or your dominance. And so much more. So remember that when you call us perverts or sick. Remember that we put more effort in a single day than most vanilla boyfriends put into their entire relationships. Thank you for your time and allowing me to share. - Daddy (Please reblog) I miss you, Daddy. -- source link