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fuwafemdom: cupcakesandgreatness: slutty-little-alien: slutty-little-alien: mami-mimi: slutty-little-alien: There is a Catfish running rampant in the DDLG Community Hi guys. You may recognize this face as my former “Daddy”, Alex. He’s been lying, manipulating, and gaslighting his way through this community entirely unchecked for months, and that ends now. The purpose of this post is not to drag him through the mud, but to keep other littles from getting hurt by him. Alex here is a very well-practiced pathological liar. He will come into your messages very smoothly and respectfully, showing no warning signs of the usual unsafe domly-dom. He will talk himself up until he gets your kik, at which point he will start searching for information about you, and tailoring his personality to what it is he thinks you want to hear. Once you tell him where you’re located, he will spin a bullshit story about how he goes to college a couple hours away from you at a school he’s found by googling for like 5 seconds. He had told one little he lived in canada, he told me he lived in virginia, ect. He’ll tell you that he can’t meet because he’s back in the UK visiting his parents until the start of the next semester. He’s full of shit, and actually lives in the UK full time. Telling you that he lives close to you is just a way to build closeness, because it makes you think that the relationship could soon move into real life. A lot of his lies are to help build closeness. He told me we had the exact same birthday. He told me his sister got into an accident and that me being there for him made him feel so “safe” and “calm”. He makes up tragedies so that you can feel close to him by nurturing him back to happiness. He will tell you he loves you way too soon, and will sneakily pressure you little by little to reciprocate those feelings. If you’re poly, he will tell you all the other partners he has are strictly sexual, and that he wants you to be his primary because he’s “never felt something this intense for anyone before”. If you’re monogamous, he will tell you that without a doubt, you’re the only one in his life. He moves very very quickly, he’ll try to steer conversation towards things like wanting to spend the rest of his life with you, where you’ll get married, and what you’ll name your future cat. Outwardly, he likes to seem charming and committed. He may even have purchase gifts for you that he’s apparently bringing home with him, and send you pictures of them. He also had me buy a bunch of really expensive sex toys for us to use together, knowing full well that we could never meet. The reason i know that he does this consistently is that i have found and spoken with FOUR other women all over north america who he has been doing this exact same thing to (not counting his irl girlfrienf of 3+yrs). Sometimes he likes to play the daddy dom role, other times he acts submissive, but it’s all the same bullshit in a different package. He told me and another girl to take off work the first weekend of August to get him from the airport. She drove hours to see him (luckily i live in a big city so i didnt have to) only for him to make up a bullshit excuse last minute to keep us holding on. He told us his dad had died, and that’s why he couldnt make the flight. Who could question that, right? Who could be mad at someone who had just lost a parent? Who would dare believe that he would make something like that up. So we stayed. And stayed. Until one day he went ghost of us and we started digging up information on him, and finding each other to compare stories. This isn’t your traditional catfish. The person in the pictures was the person we were talking to. Hell, we even skyped with him! But literally everything else from where he goes to school, to his birthday, to his relationship status, to his family tragedies are LIES designed to keep you hanging on for as long as possible. Needless to say, i feel like a fucking idiot. And i dont want anyone else to have to feel this way over this fakeass hunk of human garbage ever again, so y'all have to help me get the word out. He’s probably back at it on fetlife or under a different blog, as he deleted his old one, but this is what i know about him: He identifies as a daddy. Usernames ive seen him use include mesozoic-daddy, alexthedaddy, and curly_scard. He says he working on a masters in paleontology, but for all i know that’s a lie too. He lives in the uk and definitely has an accent. Also, he’s pansexual and a switch so anyone could be a potential target for him. From what I’ve seen, he mostly preys on curvy women like myself. Idk if that’s just his preference, or if he may have some fucked up, incorrect idea that since we’re thick, we are desperate for validation and make easier targets. I’m counting on my 12k+ followers to spread the word about this fucker, so that nobody else has to be hurt or tricked by Alex like me and my new friends were. This is so far past not okay, and he needs to be avoided at all costs. This is his fetlife profile link https://fetlife.com/users/5928710 Yaaaaas, you are an absolute goddess. His new tumblr is @tae-kwon-dead I cant message him there or tag him, because he had sense enough to block me when he made the account. Feel free to pass on the messge to him that i am making it my life’s fucking mission to sleuth out every tumblr and fetlife account he makes, and make that information public to anyone and everyone i can reach. Oh and this new blog? Its not flagged as nsfw when it CLEARLY is, aaaaaand hes got a 17 year old girl flirting with him in the notes of one of his pictures. Fucking disgusting. @chubby-baby @pinkbabyprincess (I don’t know you blocking blog) Thank you very much @hiddles-for-president for bringing this to my attention, as it is important to make sure that people are knowledgeable about potential threats when venturing into the bdsm community (or any community for that matter). This community is fun, but your safety comes first! Oh my god this guy tried to talk to me as a sub too. His tumblr @tae-kwon-dead is deactivated now. Even if you think it’s hard to find people who share the same tastes and interests there are so many creeps out there. REALLY! Please be aware and don’t trust anyone easily. Your personal information means ‘’your life’’ -don’t forget this.  -- source link

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