Daily Picture Assignment #153Bruised bum.Another excellent context during which I should show my sub
Daily Picture Assignment #153Bruised bum.Another excellent context during which I should show my submission is at kink events. Likely not for the entire time, since at those events I’m also there for myself, to socialize with friends, and for others who want to see me and spend time with me. But at times I’m not with anyone in particular, like when I’m just having a conversation with a group, I should take the opportunity afforded to me by the kink-friendly space to publicly display my submission One important way I can demonstrate my submission at these events is through my attitude and the way I position myself. When he tells me to do something, I should be obedient and do as he says, of course, but I should also obey with a smile and a “Yes, sir.” Depending on the environment, when he is sitting, I should be on my knees on the floor/ground next to him, a visual reminder to me, him, and everyone else that I have submitted to him. And when given a command, such as “Get me water,” I should eagerly jump up and obey.As part of submitting at events, if (j/k, when) I start to feel jealous, in addition to all the basic things like countering negative self-talk, reassuring myself, trying to be happy that someone I care about is happy, and finding distractions, I should remind myself of my place and my purpose. Yes, part of that is that he is my owner, so he has the right to do as he will and I, as his possession, shouldn’t complain, but there’s much more to it.I should remember that my purpose is his pleasure and entertainment and that his happiness is the most important thing. Not that mine isn’t. Quite to the contrary, in fact. I have submitted to him and, as part of that, I have subsumed my wants, needs, and desires into his. When he has a positive experience, that should be a positive experience for me, as well, since it means my owner is enjoying himself. His happiness is my happiness. In addition, I can, and should, take comfort in the fact that, although he may enjoy playing with, fucking, and spending time with other people, I am his favorite toy. Our dynamic is unique and special to both of us. He is the only one who owns me and I am the only one he owns.In addition to showing my submission at kink events through my attitude, I can do the same with my behavior. By being obedient when told to do something, of course, but going beyond that. I should anticipate his needs. When we get to happy hour, I should order him his drink without having to be told. At any event, really, I should bring him water and offer to carry his bag. As I already, said, when he is sitting, I should be on my knees. I should also make sure to go off and spend time apart from him, interacting with people on my own. I know this pleases him, both because it pushes me to do something I want to do but find difficult, and because he isn’t only there for me.Finally, when we’re at kink events, I should be at my best when we play. I should offer to be useful as a practice bottom for him and serve as a demo bottom when he wants one. When we do scenes involving pain, I should take as much as he wants to give out. I should not try to block his strikes or twist away from his hands. When he’s hurting me, I need to remember that I want to make him proud. I want to do my best in front of everyone and prove how much pain and suffering I can handle. I want to show off what a good girl I can be for my owner. d/s, submission, kink, BDSM, bruises, Daily Picture Assignment, I’m for his pleasure and entertainment, me, ass, butt, marks, obedience, playing, being useful, kneeling, things I’m going to start doing -- source link
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