pervertsofcolor:“This cartoon was inspired by the incredible counsellor training workshop my
pervertsofcolor: “This cartoon was inspired by the incredible counsellor training workshop my colleague and I attended yesterday on BDSM and Intimate Partner Violence conducted by the amazing staff at the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, USA . There is such a strong and clear distinction between abuse and BDSM and the more you educate yourself on it the safer you’ll be when engaging in this form of play. If you are a submissive, please know that it is absolutely essential for you to clearly and specifically stipulate everything you consent to beforehand to your dominant partner, and make sure this is discussed whilst you are both in a position of power, NOT when you are in a sub-space. ‼️‼️‼️Remember that instead of telling your potential dominant what you don’t do or instead or just expressing your limits, actually only express what you WILL do. ‼️‼️‼️That way your dominant will know exactly what they have been given consent to carry out and anything else is off limits. This prevents confusion and significantly reduces the likelihood of consent violation because your dom has been told exactly what they are permitted to do and ONLY what they are permitted to do.” ~The Sydney Feminists @thesydneyfeminists Source: NCSF on Facebookhttp://www.ncsfreedom.org -- source link