Pointing in the Right Direction: What’s a Newbie to do?Recently a Cornertime Confidential
Pointing in the Right Direction: What’s a Newbie to do?Recently a Cornertime Confidential reader emailed to say: Wow. I love this blog your doing. I just found it yesterday and it’s like you are inside my brain. My dad used to leave two jokari paddles hanging in the pantry to Spank us with growing up. I’m 33 today, a full blown Spanko, and even still my knees get weak and my stomach fills with butterflies when I see one of those paddles. I’m looking to get more into the scene and find a “Daddy” to keep me in line. I’ve got a few guys that Spank me occasionally, but they don’t really get it. You definitely get it. I’m hoping you can point me in the right direction-Stephen________________________________________First, obviously, thank you, Stephen for reaching out. It’s for folks just like you that we write this blog. And it’s not just me, jake who writes here. There are a variety of Men Who Spank and boys here who can give their own idiosyncratic advice in the comments or in a blogpost back to you. They reach me here at [email protected]. So just ask away. Also there’s loads of blog posts within the last 9 years of writing Cornertime Confidential about how to add CP (Corporal Punishment and non-Spanking Punishments) to your life (lives if there are more than one of you), and make Discipline and Spankings a useful part of your monthly, weekly, or even daily (for those in a relationship) routine.The key is Community: finding a Spanking-centered Community in your neck of the woods or online that can help inform your thinking and decisions. Too often we leap at the first person who is somewhat on our wavelength. But that leaping isn’t a great idea all the time. Instinct is everything. A few starter posts should be must-reads for you:New boys and The First Daddy Date Whappz the AppCP Map of the Spanking WorldHot Seat RetreatLive and Let KinkCamp Red Tails (Currently, Camp Red Tails is on hold for 2021, but may reopen in 2022. Keep an eye on this space!)There are a variety of other useful things to know and appreciate, and throughout this blog we work to provide you every element for helping you get started, sustain a relationship, or be your own wild boy! But whatever you choose, know that there are many of us out here who you can turn to for advice, recommendations, and more. Check out these resources and ask your questions! We’re here to help. There’s no fee, no sponsors, and nothing but idiosyncratic, highly-un-scientific advice. In the end, it’s all up to you to choose to find your mojo in the Spanking Community. But you don’t have to find that mojo alone.Be well. Search safely. Go slow. And then soar! (sore? yes sore too!?) But Soar.________________________________________Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:Tumblr ∙ Twitter ∙ Blogger ∙ WordPress -- source link
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