What Works Best Once You’ve Begun Spanking Your boyFollowing on from last week’s
What Works Best Once You’ve Begun Spanking Your boyFollowing on from last week’s post about how to initiate a Spanking with a new boy, today we wanted to touch on What Works when you’ve already gotten your boy in the right “space.” Here’s what StricTop said:Tips for Tops: Administering a Spanking Successfullyby StricTopNo literally, “Say My Name”I give lots of positive feedback if the boy takes a Spanking that pushes him to his limits (and always a little beyond.) I find that building up to a high intensity where he starts to question his ability to take it and then backing off and giving praise helps build trust in me and confidence in himself. I build up, back off, build up a little higher, and continue to stair-step the intensity up and back until I get the desired effect in body language and vocalizations. I always stop at signs of tissue damage although some bruising and welting is inevitable.For a brand-new boy, I give him a safe word of sorts. I tell him that if The Spanking gets to be too much to take, he should say my first name, and I will immediately ease off but will not stop The Spanking until I think he’s had enuff. I tell him he is to refer to me as “Sir” at all times, so that any protest will be part of the scene unless I hear my name. I tell him that the game is to not say my name. Requiring “Sir” at all times immediately establishes the power differential. The “game” sets the expectation that the boy will take his Spanking and that he is responsible to be tough.Please comment below or email us with your ideas.________________________________________Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:Get all your Cornertime Crew gear on our new site!Tumblr ∙ Twitter ∙ Blogger ∙ WordPress -- source link