theaceandaroadvocacyproject:This week we are talking about why attraction does not equal behavior an
theaceandaroadvocacyproject:This week we are talking about why attraction does not equal behavior and some of the nuances behind what may seem like contradictions on the surface! Note, we are talking about positive things that aces and aros choose to do here, and not things they may be manipulated or coerced into doing. [ID: The first graphic has a light purple background and images of the demisexual, asexual, and gray-asexual flag. The text reads “Aces and Sex. Aces might choose to engage in sexual behavior or relationships because…They have a libido (aka, they’re horny). They enjoy sexual activity. They want to please their partner. They might not view the specific activity as sexual but as romantic, sensual, etc, and it fulfills other desires or attractions. They are demi and/or gray, and are feeling sexual attraction. They are curious. They want to have kids. It doesn’t matter why, and their identities and actions should not be policed, as they are harming nobody.”The second graphic has a light green background and images of the demiromantic, aromantic, and gray-aromantic flag. The text reads “Aros and Romance. Aros might choose to engage in romantic behavior or relationships because…They enjoy romance or have a romantic drive. They enjoy romantic actions. They want to please their partner. They might not view the specific activity as romantic but as platonic, sensual, etc, and it fulfills other desires or attractions. They are demi and/or gray, and are feeling romantic attraction. They are curious. It doesn’t matter why, and their identities and actions should not be policed, as they are harming nobody.” End description.] -- source link
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