mastersslutslave: Make the time. I see regular questions and asks to @instructor144 about Doms who c
mastersslutslave: Make the time. I see regular questions and asks to @instructor144 about Doms who can’t make the time to connect with their Subs, everyone has LIFE everyone can find a reason to be busy, I’m going to try and explain why this hurts a Submissive. We NEED to know you think about us… That’s right, it is important to a Submissive to know that even when we are not together or there are other things going on in our lives, that it is us you are thinking about. I guarantee she is thinking about you. Not once in a while ALL the time. We NEED to feel your control… I will speak personally about this. When I don’t feel ownership I start to become a bound up mess, I feel insecure and uncertain about pretty much everything. Life becomes a game of second guessing myself. The clarity is gone from my life. We NEED to know you care… We care about you our Dom so deeply that it scares us. It’s a love that surpasses any other…. we gave you the gift of ourselves… we need to know that you understand and appreciate exactly how hard that is for us, that you love us, that our needs come before everything else. We NEED to feel safe… Safe from outside influences, but mostly safe from ourselves, our thoughts, safe from the thought of you leaving or being abandoned… connection is the only way you can do that. We NEED to be your priority… You see we TRUST you, we trust you with all that we have and are, we are willing to sacrifice pretty much anything and do for you. We in return expect to be the most important part of your life. We NEED your help…. When things go astray, when something goes wrong we need to know that we can reach out to you and get help, you hold the keys to our peace of mind. You chose to accept her submission, treasure it, know that she NEEDS you, know that she will self implode or worse without you there. Make the time, when you use the bathroom, when you make a cup of coffee, when you have a minute, when you brush your teeth…. Make the time. She does for you over and over again. As the saying goes…. “Too busy is a myth, we make time for what is important to us!” -- source link