On The Breaking of a Bond. This lifestyle is replete with strong images and metaphors. We talk
On The Breaking of a Bond. This lifestyle is replete with strong images and metaphors. We talk of leather, cuffs, whips, chains, and collars. And when we find the equal but opposite half to our coin, we form bonds. Intense bonds - heralded by a collaring, and followed by a sensual journey, complete with intimate cares and decadent dances on the fringe of darkness. Yet, for all the intense language and graphic descriptions, a BDSM relationship is strong only if both halves devote their energies and their attentions in equal parts. Should a promise be missed, a care not extended, or respect not given, a seemingly strong bond can suddenly feel like a crystalline latticework. I have had the pleasure of intense bonds in my life, and the vast majority of my experiences were loving, caring relationships filled with wonderful memories. Any parting was always treated with love, respect, and an appreciation that one (or both) needed to set off on a different path. For all those glorious memories, it takes only one sadness to remind me just how fragile a bond can become. Hopes and dreams become as shattered as a collar - once treasured - and ultimately meaningless in release. Cherish your bonds. Honor each other. Love your dance on the fringe of darkness. © Fringe of Darkness, 2013 -- source link
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