luciferlesbian:breelandwalker: lordhellebore: robb-greyjoy:chrisjoshington:No offense but when a
luciferlesbian:breelandwalker: lordhellebore: robb-greyjoy: chrisjoshington: No offense but when are these takes trying to provide some “defense” for bullying because the objects of the bullying were “too weird” going to stop. Like people don’t usually develop these kinds of “strange” or anti-social behaviors in a vacuum anyways. I knew a girl in middle school who did the growling thing and she had been bullied since the 3rd grade, long before she got into anime. She did the growling thing because kids would physically harass her and teachers wouldn’t do anything about it, but they stopped when she started doing that. She told me it was easier to stomach getting made fun of for doing “weird” things/having “weird” interests than it was to have inherit facts about herself mocked. Like I know some Anime Kids in school were invariably dicks but you still can’t ultimately use odd or “cringy” behavior to justify the cruel choices of other people to mock and torment others. So many of these kids have tons of trauma from being mocked just for having a particular interest or sense of style. Was a kid wearing a raccoon tail to school because they thought it was fun and cute really worth mocking them to the point of self-hatred? If kids were getting bullied to the point of tears in this year because they liked to do Fornite Dances in the lunchroom would you think it’s funny and that the kids deserve bullying for being weird? And this shit was also just like an excuse to even more safely pick on people who were already on the ‘to-bully’ list. Think about how many people from this group were fat or not white or gay or neurodivergent and how that played into how they were ostracized in the first place. A lot of these kids would’ve gotten bullied even if they weren’t into anime/doing These Particular Weird Things because that’s what bullies do. That’s what bullies were doing before they “got into weird stuff” and it’s what they would’ve continued doing. Stop trying to make it a funny joke that people decided to traumatize their classmates because their classmates tried to commit the crime of having “abnormal” fun or having “abnormal” ways of dealing with harassment. “y’all got bullied for this other reason” great, you still shouldn’t have bullied these kids. the magical mystical reason behind it doesn’t change the fact there was bullying. also making peculiar noises, movements or over-imitating special niche interest behaviors are all characteristics that could be symptoms of neurodiversity. “we didn’t bully jack for his weird interest, just because we’re ableist” is a more accurate picture, at this point. It’s almost as if all “reasons” people cite for bullying are just excuses for: “We just wanted to be jerks and feel superior by hurting someone.” And just to wrap this up for anyone looking for loopholes, even in the absence of visible differences or neurodivergent behaviors that make up the usual “easy target” list, people who want to be bullies WILL STILL FIND REASONS TO BULLY.It’s never about what the victim allegedly did to “make themselves a target.” It’s always about some entitled asshole’s sadistic need to feel powerful and included at the expense of someone else, regardless of what they claim as an excuse, AND it’s about the extant culture in schools and society that encourages them to do so by minimizing consequences, blaming the victims, and tweeting bullshit like the post above. for every person who makes a post like this defending bullying, i would LOVE a list of their idea of behaviors worth bullying that isn’t possibly also stemming from being autistic/adhd. -- source link