fortheloveofasubmissive: Going Down on a submissiveThere appears to be a latent belief out there amo
fortheloveofasubmissive: Going Down on a submissiveThere appears to be a latent belief out there among “dominant” men that somehow going down on a submissive woman is an act of submission on the part of a Dom and thus should be avoided. I want to clear the air on this.I revel in going down on my Muse not because it is expected or even requested, but because it is an act of shear love and complete possession of her pleasure. When I go down on my Muse, she loves to watch and props herself up on her elbows drinking me in as I take her full in my mouth, tongue lashing hither and yon. She stares down at me wide eyed and panting, her chest and beautiful stomach heaving as I tease and torture her. Grasping her thighs I press her legs up and take her full in my mouth, making her mine. Nothing submissive at all in the act of pinning her down and having my way with her, playing her like an instrument of lust and pleasure.As much as she loves to watch and desperately tries to keep her head up, eyes locked on me devouring her, there comes a point where she has no choice but to throw her head back, tossing her long mane, collapsing back onto the bed, arms failing her. In this moment, sucking her clit between my teeth, tongue lashing its throbbing head, there is absolutely no question who is the Dom and who is the sub, no doubt whatever who commands the moment and owns her response.So is going down on a submissive an act of submission or weakness? Bah! I am never more in control of my Muse then in this decisive moment when she becomes utterly powerless but to submit to the waves of pleasure and trembling exhaustion as I lash her not with leather and paddles, but with rather with tongue.There are many ways to take a submissive. Some require absolutely no rope, no cuffs, no lashes, no ties, and not even words. But in this moment, she becomes my absolute possession without reservation, completely under my influence. Owned. Unable to resist or respond. Purely at the mercy of my desire for her. Utterly controlled.An act of submission on my part? You be the judge…Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2012Originally posted on October 20, 2012Image Credit Unknown -- source link