thoughtsofasubgirl: What is a Dominant Man? On my hike today i found this beautiful leaf. As i
thoughtsofasubgirl: What is a Dominant Man? On my hike today i found this beautiful leaf. As i stood there, alone in the quiet i realized that this leaf… is my Master. This heart shaped leaf, so beautiful and so real. i think so often we write only about how strong a submissive is. How she must trust so much to give herself to a Man. How she is vulnerable to Him and how her skin is thick but her heart is soft. We forget to praise and honor out loud the Man who owns that submissive. i have an incredible Man. This Man happens to be my Master and Owner but the core of Him is not that. The core of Him is Himself. A wide, open, beautiful heart that is not without its troubles. Not without its heartache and struggles. He is human. He has pieces of Him, holes in His heart that were there before i entered. Some may never heal. Some i may help to heal. Some may even be caused by me. It is my job as His woman to help try to fill those and those i cant, i can help to understand and cradle. A Dominant Man is not made of iron. He is as soft as we are. His skin as thick, His heart as soft. He will have bad days. Days that He doubts himself just like we do. Days that His heart aches and no matter what you say you can’t fix it and you aren’t supposed to. Listening does wonders. He will fall and fail just like we fall and fail. Peek into Him deeper and you may even see how hard it is to Own another human being. To be the Alpha to another who gives everything to you. i am not Dominant. my vanilla life is very much lead by me but in this lifestyle there is not a Dominant bone in my body so i don’t claim to know all a Dominant goes through but i do know that i kneel before a Beautiful Master who has a heart that is the loveliest i have ever seen. i also know that i love the Man that He is. The Son. The brother. The friend. The father He will be and in a lot of ways already is. i love the way He laughs and the way He tries to be Domestic when He has to. i adore the way He looks shirtless when He vacuums and the way He looks hovered over me when we brush our teeth together. i love the way His eyes beam when i get Him a surprise and the cute way He holds His fork when He eats. (Seems us Americans haven’t grasped the proper way to hold utensils!). i love when He laughs so hard that He snorts and that no matter how close i sleep to Him, He will always end up hugging the corner of the bed. i adore when He stops to wait for me because my legs are shorter and that He reaches His hand out to hold mine to let others know that i am His. i love that He couldn’t leave a hotel room messy and that everything had a place (i will need to adjust!). i love that He makes fun of the way i say wanton and herb. i love that He uses words like “getting gas” and “ass”. my point is that a Dominant is merely human. He hurts, He laughs, He gives and He takes. He has ups and downs. He has doubts and disturbances. He has days that He needs you close and days He needs you quiet. He is not invincible. He is not all knowing. He doesn’t have all the answers…. But He loves You. He adores You. He needs and wants You. So submissives… slaves… littles…. whatever your heart is…. Love your counterpart. Respect your counterpart. Understand your counterpart and remember that He is only human. To you superhuman, YOUR superhuman but in the end…. His heart is the same as yours. Love Him, Adore Him, Believe in Him and He will do the same for you. Just my two cents…. His slave, kraska Very true. -- source link