b-j–frazier:***PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT***A Warning to SubmissivesMany of you put warnings
b-j–frazier:***PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT***A Warning to SubmissivesMany of you put warnings on your homepage like, “don’t message me with Hey, Sissy” or “I’m not into findom” …so I thought you knew which blogs were “bots”.I did not realize that a desire to be submissive sometimes interferes with logic. I’ve talked with too many subs recently who have been duped.The conversations start with, “Hey, B.J., I met a really awesome woman on Tumblr who wants to dominate me” or “who wants to have a long-term relationship, and she’s a Mistress”.After speaking with them a short while, I burst their bubbles, and they’re able to recognize the tell-tale signs.And it got me thinking: If these intelligent subs were fooled, how many others are triggered, too?I’ve talked about this a few times on the blog on my website, because even *I* get “hey slave” DMs. The most recent one is here: https://www.bjfrazier.com/blog/a-loving-female-led-relationship/I go into more detail on my website, but here are a few things to look for:~ Be leery of messages from “dommes” choosing you. Not that you’re not worthy but most dommes don’t hunt for their prey.~ If the username is MistressAnna or GoddessAshley, chances are, they’re not real~ Beware weird usernames. They’ve recently started to string four random words together, like sillygardenpartysports or freealmondsportnickel~ Beware DMs that begin with “hey slut” or “hey” or “would you like to be my sissy panty boy”If you don’t know me, I’m an erotica author specializing in Femdom. I write from experience and fantasy.I’ve met some wonderful people here, and it hurts me to see them taken advantage of. So please reblog this message to prevent other subs from falling into the same trap… and I hope you find your perfect *real* Dominant. Until then, be smart with your search.~B.J. -- source link