Early in a relationship a woman will flirt with some other guy in front of her new boyfriend and eve
Early in a relationship a woman will flirt with some other guy in front of her new boyfriend and even let this other guy go further than she would let him if she was single. This is just to see how forcefully and at what point her new bf will step in to stop the other guy. Some guys are too macho and step in way too early (“we were just talking”) while other guys are the opposite and don’t do anything at all except laugh it off. Either way she now knows what kind of man you are. The worst response is to not say anything to the guy but then get mad at HER later. This tells her 1) that you don’t like her being sexual (bad) and 2) you won’t stand up for yourself when another man makes you mad. That makes you look weak and means you likely won’t stand up for her, either (worse). If you are hoping to have some version of an open/hotwife/cheating relationship this moment is a perfect opportunity to introduce the idea. When she flirts with the other guy you should let it go as far as possible - as long as she is having fun. (Obviously if she is upset or annoyed with the guy you need to step in, even if it means getting your ass kicked.) Later when she says something like “I can’t believe you let him do that”, THAT is the time to tell her how it was turning you on to see her flirting/happy/being sexual. Tell her you didn’t stop him because you were enjoying it, and she was, too. Mention that maybe next time she can go further with him, or with some other guy that she likes. She might not believe you or she might be confused at first, but the important thing is to keep her talking about it over the next days or weeks. Tell her you were fantasizing about her with some guy, even bring it up during foreplay. This will reinforce that you were serious about it and gives her time to wrap her head around this “crazy” idea of yours. Soon enough she will realize how lucky she is to have a guy thinks this way. I can’t promise she will go as far as you might want, but at the very least she will feel sexier and she will know in the back of her mind that she has the option to fool around. She will be more open to telling you slutty things from her past, and she may dress sexier which will lead to more guys hitting on her. Anything is possible once the door is gently pushed open, but it all starts with how you handle that initial test of her flirting with another guy. -- source link
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