photodiaryobscura:coffee-clubbers:dearest syke-kitty, instead of seeking a person i can ca
photodiaryobscura: coffee-clubbers: dearest syke-kitty, instead of seeking a person i can call my valentine for valentine’s day this year, i will be celebrating another holiday called single’s awareness day which i’m okay with celebrating even if it’s debated whether if it exists or not. specifically, i will be exercising self-love by treating myself to roses, chocolates, and wine along with my binge watching my favorite shows on netflix (arrested development is my currently guilty pleasure btw), writing how i feel about certain men i’ve fawned over on my little diary like how tina belcher from bob’s burgers writes erotic friend fiction centering around her and jimmy jr., and wishing dear friends of mine a happy valentine’s day. though it might be easy for single people like myself to brood over all because of how we don’t have someone to be physically and emotionally affectionate with, we’re not less significant for not seeking love if we’re not up for it. we’re not less significant if we’ve tried to find love yet we struggle in finding someone suitable for us after we’ve been on shitty dates with shitty people. we’re not less significant if we decide to spend time with friends, family, and anyone else whom we aren’t pursing a romantic relationship with. and we’re not less significant if we choose to spend valentine’s day by ourselves just so that we can practice phyisical, emotional, and spiritual self-love. so let’s all celebrate valentine’s day the way each and every one of us wants to celebrate it as there’s no right way to celebrate that special day so i hope you, memphis, and the other clubbers out there have an amazing time next tuesday. with all my love, photodiaryobscura let me just start by saying that i got lost in a fit of giggles when you mentioned the friend fiction lol. i absolutely love your plans for V day, and i hope that they turn out exactly how you imagined. i’m honestly just so excited for you so happy that you’re getting to spend the day loving yourself and dear ones. thank you for the lovely submission :)! xo, syke-kitty thank you! i’m glad i made you laugh and bob’s burgers references ftw! -- source link