VENUS IN CANCERThese people come into life fundamentally insecure. Their inner emotional reality is

VENUS IN CANCERThese people come into life fundamentally insecure. Their inner emotional reality is like a tornado of different emotional states that seem to come and go on their own terms. They can feel stable and secure in one moment, and highly insecure in the next.Their basic needs are motivated by the desire to feel secure, to feel safe and stabilized. However, even when they are given love and nurturing, it’s never quite enough.Each mood swing defines their reality at the moment it’s happening.There is a fundamental desire to be taken care of, to be nurtured by someone whom they can trust.It’s possible that is originated from some cataclysmic emotional event in which their ability to feel inwardly secure has been serverely compromised.Cancer Venus has an inherent emotional expectation projected on relationships that others should somehow know just what the Venus needs without them actually verbalizing their needs. It’s a deep, silent expectation.When unmet, these expectations can produce emotional behaviors that shock even the person with Venus in Cancer themselves. Behaviors that go from a deep, crushing silence to extreme displays of anger are common. These reactions are usually disproportionate to the event or circumstance that triggered them.Cancer Venus relates to people on an emotional basis. They can naturally feel someone else’s emotional state, and the needs that such state produce, even when the other person isn’t verbalizing or actively projecting their emotions. They have an inherent ability to be compassionate.When someone is going through emotional distress, Venus in Cancer naturally responds with real emotional caring, wisdom, support, nurturing, and love. They encourage others to let out their emotions.The very essence of a Cancer Venus’ touch is warm, consuming, and reassuring; which reflects their own need to be reassured through touching and holding. They stablish trust through physical touch.However, these people also have an inherent fear of being too vulnerable. Even verbalizing what they need or feel can be too exposing for them. In fact, when others ask how they’re doing, the answe is usually “I’m fine” even when they’re obviously not. It’s an instinctual response to their distrust of most people.For those who are close and with whom there is trust, the best way to get a Cancer Venus to open up is through touch, combined with soft, soothing words.Sexually, they need very strong touch, holding and kissing in order to feel sexually secure and trusting. Unless they feel emotionally safe, they’ll feel sexually insecure. -- source link
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