While I will always tell you what I desire, I do love it when pro-actively do things for me. begging
While I will always tell you what I desire, I do love it when pro-actively do things for me. beggingforpermission: femsubdenial: quantumsatis: I never asked you to debase yourself like this. I never gave you an order to kiss my feet. I never commanded you to worship me in this most reverential of ways. I didn’t. What I did do with all the pleasure I give you, with those meandering and dark words I whisper, with all the inventive ways I have to inflict delicious pain on your body is this: I awakened the true submissive that you are. And that, my dear pet, is way more powerful than ordering you to do it. shit that’s hot’ kind of way. :-) It’s not about making you do things, it’s about honing in on and resonating with those parts of you that make you irresistably yearn to do things. (tumblr is being dumb and is cutting off some of femsubdenial’s response and I can’t figure out how to fix it) This is actually something I have been concerned about quite a lot lately with New Partner. I find he isn’t asking a whole lot of me. It’s rare he has a specific request or a demand for my surrender. And yet, and yet, the hardest thing is holding back sometimes. Because he didn’t ask, I simply yearn to give - to him, specifically. For example, the other day I showed up at his place early because I wanted to practice the massage techniques I had learned before the munch. As I was setting down my over-night bag, work laptop, etc, I actually had to lock my knees in place to keep standing there and grab the back of the kitchen table chair to hold on. I felt such a strong desire to go kneel in front of him - to say “Hi, I’ve missed you” with my body the way my heart was saying “Hi”. I didn’t, of course. I’ve been given no explicit indication that it would have been an appropriate welcome in his eyes. Although now that I think about it (and am feeling less vulnerable so I can think more clearly) I believe that he would have accepted that action with the intention I had behind it. I often read viewpoints that talk about how if the Dom didn’t ask for it specifically, the sub isn’t doing it for them (and the implication being, of course, that you shouldn’t do it then). It’s really quite comforting and reassuring to read the opposite - that the emotions and reactions inspired by the person are just as meaningful. -- source link
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