sirteachingpet:bdsmafterthoughts:sirteachingpet:Owning someone means many things. For most tha
sirteachingpet: bdsmafterthoughts: sirteachingpet: Owning someone means many things. For most that will read this, it’s simply an abstract thought. For others it’s a fantasy, hoped for, dreamed of, kept locked away in the vault with many other indulgences. The reality of it is responsibility. Another human being entrusts you with everything. I won’t embarrass intriguedsub here and tell you details, but that means stepping in and changing everyday behavior where needed. It means helping them when they struggle, lifting them out of darkness and turmoil, and building them up. The reward here, for those that are sincere and persistent, is that you can also make them do whatever you’d like, even when they dislike it. It’s not forced, consent is freely given, but with that trust comes the trust to do as I wish, to please me even at her own discomfort. This is is one such scenario. You see, this is very uncomfortable. The drool, which I find very arousing and pleasantly humiliating, is gross to her. The gag makes it harder to breathe, the drool makes a mess, and it generally is not something she enjoys, other than I enjoy it. Yet, she woke up early, put on make-up, and placed it in her mouth. She waited until she drooled sufficiently, then took several pictures from which I could choose from. Then she sent it here so I could write about it and share with you all. Ownership isn’t easy, but it’s worth it. And my little girl, well, she’s amazing. -Sir Tumblr is social media. The key thing to that is social. It is about sharing. The author of the above has asked that I delete my reblog of it and post it with his text intact. I am a reasonable sort of chap. I don’t like upsetting people and am always inclined to be helpful and facilitative. But. Can you see anything in the text above which indicates that he wants it to be posted with the text in intact? I can’t. Even if I could, I wouldn’t want what he has written on my blog. The picture says something to me - the text is irrelevant and unwanted on my blog. It is my view that there is a lot of material which is private. I agree that that should be left alone. I am not going to interfere with anybody who wishes to keep their own photographs or accompanying text to themselves. But once you post material to a social media sites such as Tumblr they are for sharing. That is how this works. I will consider whether I wish to reblog a photograph with text changed if there is a request to leave that text unchanged. I reserve the right not to but at least you have asked politely. I will of course never steal a photograph from another I not crediting the original author with the material – I always re-blog. But to request that a re-blog is completely unchanged is both unreasonable and failing to understand what Tumblr is. It is social media – designed with sharing in mind. I have responded to this unreasonable request very reasonably. I have deleted my original re-blog and my original comments. I stand by them still, but I want to be helpful. No more however. If you choose to post a Tumblr entry, I consider that you are choosing to share it and I consider it reasonable that I choose to reblog it in my way on my blog. If you don’t like that, or you don’t accept that, don’t use social media like Tumblr. Mike, England, reasonable and facilitative and totally fed up with people not understanding the nature of social media. Hello Mike, You have been very polite and reasonable in removing the old picture, as I have been very reasonable and polite in asking you to do so. Allow me, if you don’t mind, to offer a counter point. You see, too often social media, and the many that use it, forget that writing is its own medium for creativity. You said that you value the image and that it speaks to you, but you neglected to mention the words. If they don’t speak to you, then the image hasn’t truly spoken to you. Let me explain further. The wonderfully lady in the picture is very special to me. She put in time and effort to take that picture exactly as I asked her to. However, I took an even longer time writing the perfect, in my opinion, words for this picture. This is my art. Something I created and pieced together just so. So I wasn’t simply asking that you delete the original reblog, missing the caption, for some glory or credit or to boast. I simply wanted the creative piece, that is this image, to be kept whole. You’re right, I didn’t explicitly state that the caption should remain, but I honestly didn’t foresee it as an issue. Not all captions have value, I’ve deleted many myself. But I hope you can agree that this is a little different than, “For more nudes click here.” Again, I appreciate you taking the time to appease me, and hopefully you’ve received a sense of the reason behind the request. -Sir Devotional Training: Keeping the captions remains important. -- source link