Service Submission It’s a conflict, from a Dominant’s point of view. When you&am
Service Submission It’s a conflict, from a Dominant’s point of view. When you’re pandering to stereotypes that aren’t the healthy ones, that have dictated a subservient role for an entire gender for half a decade, along with spawning a whole hilarious barrage of ‘back in the kitchen’ jokes and references, it’s hard not to feel like you’re part of the problem. Service submission is something that works for me on a fundamental level, but in an incredibly specific set of circumstance. The desire has to be there, as with so much in D/s, but more than that the understanding that you’re doing this not because you believe its your place, or that you’re any more suited to the task, but because you genuinely want to fulfill that part of my life, to wait on me, dote on me, in a way that isn’t overtly sexual, where the eroticism comes out of the task at hand, rather than any dressing I might drape over it. Inevitably, then, it’s something that has to be brought up by the submissive for me to believe that they want it enough for me to allow it. Perhaps I’m erring too far to one side, but this way I’m not going to have that twinge of guilt at the edge of my mind bubbling up from within me. I’m not going to have the slightest suspicion that maybe you’re only doing this because I mentioned it. Although that’s enough thing entirely, and one that is far more tricky to unpack over the course of a few paragraphs. So I’m not going to attempt it. It’s 1am, after all. Instead I’m just going to smile and compliment you on quite how delicious you look ironing shirts, and remind you that if there’s a single crease I’m going to give you a few of your own, arranged in horizontal lines along your backside. I’ve been itching to try out this cane, after all. -- source link
Tumblr Blog : bellucci-bella.tumblr.com
#oh noes#dominance#submission#bondage#fetish#erotica