The fear of ridicule and disgust has prevented many gentlemen from expressing their true desires.&nb
The fear of ridicule and disgust has prevented many gentlemen from expressing their true desires. And honestly, it’s probably a well founded fear. Most people know their partners’ attitudes about various things and they can extrapolate. I still remember when t related how he and Missus had been watching something on HBO that had a pegging scene and she wrinkled her nose and said “That’s so unnatural! You’d never want anything like that, would you?”Personally, I thought she might have been fishing, feeling him out to see if he was turned on by it. Imagine if he had confessed it was his greatest desire, that he wanted to be fucked in the ass with a strapon instead of having to surreptitiously use toys on himself for anal pleasure. They might have rediscovered the passion of their early days and she’d be bending him over each day, twice on Sundays. But no….he was not that courageous. He might have been right. He knows her better than I do, obviously, never having met her at all. It’s My opportunity, though. Mine and other women who are very open about our delight in engaging in D/s relationships, in pegging and milking and disciplining men. In training them to perform various acts seen as humiliating or weird or gay - as though that’s a bad thing. I suppose the belief that a wife or girlfriend would be shocked and grossed out if they learned their man wanted to suck a cock or wear chastity or whatever other submissive act their little hearts craved…that belief enhances the illicit thrill, the taboo nature, the erotic shame of doing these things for Me. -- source link
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