Deception is not always a bad thing. Not when the outcome is a reward. I don’t claim to be
Deception is not always a bad thing. Not when the outcome is a reward. I don’t claim to be the most clever of the lot, but my kitten can tell you that the most effective means of getting what I want from her is to surprise her. Catch her off guard. Give her something she needs before she even knows she needs it. If you can get into her mind…listen to her thoughts… And give her what she needs at just the right moment… she will fall to her knees without a single command. -- source link
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